So you have been doing all the things to make you more intuitive and its working. You are meditating longer tuning in to people better and learning to read situations and people. So what now?

This is where the to be or not to be a Psychic comes into it. Most people get a little bit of intuitive insight and all of a sudden have thrown in their day job and plonked a neon psychic is in sign out the front of the house.

Here’s a tip a lot of people are very good singers but they don’t go on American Idol. Some people are very good carpenters but they don’t start building an Ark. Some people are very intuitive but that doesn’t mean they are meant to be a Psychic in the traditional sense of the word.

My son is intuitive but he uses it to build his business so he can give back to the community that way. You can be intuitive and use this gift to be a better partner, mother, father, sibling or friend. Not everyone is meant to be wear the psychic hat. As for me I use my gifts in all of the above ways. And my purpose is more about helping people and being of service the psychic bit is simply the tool I use to do this.

So if you are intuitive don’t think there is only one road for you to go down. There are many possibilities for using your gift and a lot have nothing to do with anything New Age. You can be a counselor and use your gift to give you greater insight into the people who come to you. You can be a teacher and use your gift to see how to help the children in front of you. And so on the traditional ways of the psychic are out of date in this generation and time. So please think outside of the box because there are so many unique and wonderful ways you can use your gift!

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I did a ‘Reading’ (as us Psychics like to call them) the other day and the words that came through for the person got me thinking about balance and what we perceive it to be.
The guidance was very clear that What we like to think of as balance is really a juggling act. People talk about having balance in their lives all the time. I can balance work play my spirituality my family but are you really balancing all this or merely juggling everything to fit it in?
To Juggle is to manage or alternate the requirements of (two or more tasks, responsibilities, activities, etc.) so as to handle each adequately
To balance refers to mental steadiness or emotional stability; habit of calm behavior, judgment, etc.
So lets say one refers to the outside stuff (Juggling) and one refers to the inside stuff (Balance)
Hmmm……So when a Mother says I am balancing what I have to do with my children my responsibilities as a Mother with my commitment to my partner and my part time work…..is she really balancing anything or simply juggling it all to fit it all into her life?
Look at it this way…..the outside stuff….we have no control over we have the illusion of control and that’s about it. We are simply juggling things around trying not to drop the ball. Why because you cannot control the environment other people stuff is going to happen over which you have no control and when it does things are going to go out of whack.
Now some people might say that is what we call becoming unbalanced but if you think of balance as being within….it would not matter what was happening on the outside if you had achieved that inner balance. There would be no need to run around trying to fit everything back the way it was you would simply flow with the situation and adjust accordingly.
So lets go back to the Mother juggling all her commitments….lets say one day her husband is fired and she has to go to work full time so now she has to juggle a fulltime job family and an unemployed partner. Now if she had balance within she would shift her thinking to problem solving and solutions if she was merely juggling she would run frantically around from one thing to the other trying to create time to fit things in when there was no time and probably end up burnt out and frazzled.
This is simply a theory I have….
For me if you have balance within are calm at peace with who you are where you are and what you are doing then the outside stuff tends to takes care of itself.
Having been a sole parent for many years I have been down the road of trying to juggle bills children ex-partners work and so on. Oddly enough the more I did my inner work the less outside work I needed to do.
I am no new age Guru I am still struggling with my humanness as I call it everyday but I do have the odd “Grasshopper moment”
“Ahhh Grasshopper balance does not come by motion but by stillness. When the water is poured into the glass it only becomes level when it is still”

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The words “if only” are for a lot of people why they go to psychics.

If only I won lotto
If only he would change
If only I had a better job
If only my sister would listen to me

Then when they get to the psychic they are confronted with ‘realities’ and get defensive.

Bottomline is reality is what we deal with, if only’s are for those who do not believe they have what it takes to change their life. And here’s a newsflash without that belief nothing is going to change.

That’s my job to show you that you do have what it takes to change your life and you don’t need a pocket full of magic beans to do it.

And a little side note you can’t change anyone else into what you think they should be either. Change always begins within and the person has to want it.

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I more than most whould know to stop and listen to what my intuition is telling me. Yesterday for example I kept thinking I must ring Jane and I didn’t pay attention and that night someone rang to say Jane was in hospital.

I am not special most people get an Angel whisper and don’t listen to it. Like the day before when I walked pass an impressive slice and core apples thing in the shop. I thought I should buy that then pushed the thought aside and today low and behold there I was with 50 apples to core and slice.

So stop and pay attention when the words and thoughts come into your head more often than not the Angels are whispering to you!

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