When you consider that the divorce rate among couples is over 50 percent, it shouldn’t come as a surprise that most roommate relationships don’t work out, either, but what are the most effective ways to end a relationship without it turning ugly. Here are a few tips.

It is important to stay honest and calm, no matter how ugly or animated the conversation gets with your roommate when you decide to move out or decide to tell them to move out. Deciding who moves can be a bit point of contention, especially when both of you have your names on the lease. If only one of you does, than it becomes a pretty cut and dried affair. Make sure you give your roommate plenty of notice so they can find a new place. Expecting them to move out overnight or within a week is completely unreasonable.

Resolving any lingering money disputes can also be a huge point of contention. For a situation like this, you may need to enlist the help of a professional arbitrator to get you through. Many states and even some Canadian provinces have arbitration systems in place for dispute resolution between roommates and even between tenants and landlords. If you don’t have an arbitrator you can use, check out the possibility of using your landlord to decide your dispute for you. It is important that both parties understand that the ruling is binding and that you both have to abide by it, or the whole exercise is pointless.

Probably the biggest source of roommate conflict is money. One month it will be one roommate not coming up with rent by the first of the month, and the next it will be the other roommate complaining that they shouldn’t have to pay half of the utilities since they don’t use half of the utilities. Here is a basic guide you can use to get through any problems such as these.

In the case of late rent, it is a situation where if something like that happens once, it is fine since everyone makes mistakes now and then, but if coming up with rent late starts to become a habit, than immediate termination of the roommate agreement is acceptable. By not having rent on time, you are putting your roommate in an extremely difficult position, especially if they don’t have any way to pay the remainder. If you can’t pay the rent, you shouldn’t have moved in.

As far as dividing up utilities goes, you would be smart to have an agreement in place long before the first cable, internet or power bill comes in the mail. Of course, those agreements can be adjusted throughout the stay, but they can also be made part of the overall agreement so that any changes could result in someone moving out. Essentially, if roommate A decides they don’t want to pay for half the cable bill anymore, instead of simply withholding that cash, it would be decided upon at the beginning that that would mean that that person moves out.

The art of finding the perfect roommate sure has changed over the past few years. With the introduction of websites like Craigslist and Facebook, people can now go on and on about who they are, what they like and what they are looking for in a roommate. It wasn’t that long ago that people only had word of mouth and the occasional newspaper ad to tell the world that they needed a roommate. Here are a few essentials for writing that perfect roommate ad.

First off, be passionate. You aren’t looking for a study partner here, you are looking for someone to share your living space with. If you have pet peeves, talk about them, if you have things you’re passionate about like hobbies or political beliefs, talk about them. Finding someone you match up with is important, and you don’t want to find out after they have already moved in that they are a mortal enemy.

Second, don’t be afraid to be picky. Again, it is impossible to stress how important of a decision this is, and you don’t want to get it wrong and settle for someone you really don’t care for. If you contact someone based on a mutual interest you both have only to find out that you only have that one thing in common, keep looking, there are a lot of fish in the sea.

Finally, trust your first impression because it is often correct. If someone seems a bit off to you, they likely are.

While it may not be the first thing that comes to mind when we think about stressful interviews, a roommate interview can be one of the most impacting and important interviews we ever have. Let’s take a look at some of the important questions that we must ask when we sit down with a potential roommate.

Hopefully, the person you are sitting across from has already told you quite a bit about themselves through their ad. Since most people place online ads these days that can go into quite a bit more detail than the traditional newspaper or magazine ad that relied on complicated and confusing abbreviations, you will likely have a good working knowledge of the person you are talking to. The point of the interview is to lay the ground rules about how the roommate arrangement is going to work.

First and foremost, you need to talk about the financial situation that you and the apartment are in. Rent should be the first thing out of your mouth, followed by things like utilities and things like that. Privacy should also be at or near the top of the list of things to talk about. Try to find out how often they vacuumed in their old place. How often they dusted. Do they like pets? If you have a cat or small dog, how will they act around it?

A roommate interview doesn’t have to be a depressing downer of an interview, but it shouldn’t be something you brush off as unimportant, either.

If you could list all of the ways in which the Internet has changed our lives, you would be busy for quite some time. When it comes to finding the perfect roommate, the Internet has allowed up to search far and wide in seconds to find people that we have things in common with and with who we will likely be compatible with. In the olden days, the only way we could find a roommate was to ask around our immediate group of friends or among coworkers to find someone. We wouldn’t really know how compatible we would be with them, but it beat paying all that rent ourselves so we often pushed ahead, for better or worse. Here are a few tips for creating your roommate profile online so that you can find the perfect match.

First off, you need to be honest. Don’t be afraid of coming off sounding like a neat freak or like a lazy bones, you are trying to find someone who you can stand living with so you need to be as honest as possible. You aren’t out to make friends here, you are trying to find someone who you can be around without going crazy.

Second, give as much detail as possible. Don’t worry about rambling, the more information you give the better because it allows others the chance to get to know you. You should expect the same from the other profiles you read.

Finally, trust your gut. If you instantly click with someone, that’s a great sign, go with it. If you have misgivings about someone, than you are probably wise to walk away.

When most people are going through their laundry list of roommate priorities, they seldom focus on saving money as a common trait, but in reality, saving money with a roommate can be fun and easy. Here are a few things the two of you can do together to keep costs down.

If the two of you enjoy the same kind of food, you can start shopping at warehouse stores that sell giant sized products. Not only will you save a ton on food (and other things like medicine and laundry care) but it will encourage the two of you to eat at home instead of eating out, which will save you even more.

Try to make an effort to keep energy costs down by only using the power in the rooms that the two of you are in at the same time. So, if you are in your room and your roommate is in his, make sure the living room television and lights are off and that the lights are off in the kitchen and bathroom, too. It is amazing how much you can save on your power bill if both of you put forth a little extra effort.

Finally, adjusting the heat or air conditioning just a bit when you sleep at night can save quite a bit on the power bill, too. Just a simple adjustment of a few degrees can really add up over the course of a month. Saving money with your roomie really is fun and easy.

If you are moving into a new apartment with a new roommate, you should consider getting renter’s insurance. If you’ve never heard of renter’s insurance before, it is a handy tool that you can use to replace your belongings in the case of fire, theft or even if your roommate breaks something. There are, however, a few common misconceptions about renter’s insurance that we should take a look at first.

There are a few circumstances in which you may not need renter’s insurance that you should know about. In some cases, if your roommate already has renter’s insurance, you may not need to get your own policy, although it is absolutely vital that you check with the rental insurance company that holds the policy to make sure. You will need to document all of your belongings and add them to the policy as long as the two of you live together.

Another circumstance in which you may not need a policy is if your parents have a homeowners’ insurance policy that you are covered under. Again, it is dangerous to assume that you are automatically covered under this policy, so call ahead to verify.

If you do decide to get your own policy, make sure you accurately photograph and appraise all of your belongings that you will cover so that filing a claim can be done easily. Try to save receipts of your purchases so that you can prove the worth of the items you’ll claim, although in the case of a fire, that task is obviously very difficult.

When it comes to picking the right place to live, most of us have quite a few things we have to juggle. We want to live in the nicest apartment complex that offers the most perks and amenities, but we also want to live with a roommate that we won’t want to strangle. Deciding between the complex of your dreams and a good roommate can be tough, so let’s take a look at both sides of the issue.

First, the price of living with a good roommate can’t be overstated. A person’s home should be their sanctuary and it should be a place where they can truly relax and feel little to no stress. If you live with a roommate you can’t stand, that stress can lead to serious health problems that can send your quality of life into the ground. While it may be disappointing not to have a nicer apartment complex that has some great amenities, the plusses you gain from living with a quality roommate are far more important.

On the other hand, if you have an apartment complex that allows you to be more social, with amenities such as a pool, a workout room or even a sauna, there is a better chance that you will meet people who might end up replacing your bad roommate. That way, you really do get the best of both worlds, but you are taking a gamble that might not be worth it.

It is a scenario that many of us dread: moving in with a roommate only to have the situation turn ugly. Since most states heavily weigh tenant’s rights far above that of the landlords, evictions are tough to come by, especially in the case of roommates. Your landlord will likely find it easier to evict both of you, even if only one of you is the problem. Let’s take a look at a few things your landlord might be able to do to help you get rid of a bad roommate.

The first step with any bad roommate situation is seeing if you can talk out the problems. If you have already had a few heart to heart discussions with your roommate and nothing has come from it, enlist the help of your landlord to see what can be done. That way, if your roommate admits to not paying his or her half of the bills and your landlord sees the attitude that you are dealing with, it will be easier to move ahead with other options.

If your roommate still refuses to shape up, your landlord can tell that person they have to move out, and assuming they aren’t familiar with rental law, they may fall for it. In reality, your roommate would have to miss rent for several months before your landlord could legally throw him or her out, but depending on whose name is on the lease, you might have other options.

If you are thinking about moving into your own apartment and you need a roommate, you should take extra care to ensure that you are picking the right person. Many people wonder if there is a secret method to picking the perfect roommate, and while different people have different standards that they judge a good roommate by, here are a few essential tips you can follow to help you end up with someone you actually like living with.

First off, try to find someone you know. That way, you already have a good idea of what kind of personality they have and what kinds of interests they have. While no one wants to live with a clone of themselves, it helps to live with someone you have similar interests to so that you aren’t always fighting over the television or what to do at night.

If you aren’t going to live with someone you know, try to screen your roommates the best you can. Make a list of priorities so that you can ask prospective roommates what is most important to them. If you both have neatness and quiet nature at the top of the list, than you likely have a match.

Finally, go with your gut instincts. It may sound a bit clichéd, but often times your first impression about someone is the right impression. You probably also want to stick to someone of the same sex (assuming you’re straight) so that there is no sexual tension that could ruin an otherwise mutually beneficial agreement.