Marriage sex and relationship
¿But I say unto you, that whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery¿ (Matthew 5:32). ¿But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart¿ (Matthew 5:28).
As far as sex is concerned each of us is cheat, get attracted easily to good looks and gorgeous. Thus the desire enchants within to feel externally or internally whatever!!!!!!! Social binding is the tool that restricts us rather controls the freedom in order to differentiate us from animals. women¿s desire is to have healthy and perfect child so wishes to conceive perfect gene. This quality in female persuades her to search and test the variety, during the peak period, her instinct would pay attention to the attracting quality of males and if relates to her taste, indication of green signal begins for association. Married or not; there is no adult woman, who has never desired for association with more than one man in her life time. Social restriction prevents her rather for women there are heavy restriction by society and its religion. Her freedom is totally curtailed. At least no body can prevent her from dreaming about another person. Woman instinct is limited to quality so would not wish to go for as many numbers as men do, in the same time they love men flirting around and compete to seek her. Finally winner / suitable man is invited to have contact for having child.
(Old Testament) viewed women: Unmarried women were not allowed to leave the home of their father. Married women were not allowed to leave the home of their husband. They were normally restricted to roles of little or no authority. They were not allowed to talk to strangers. They had to be doubly veiled when they left their homes.
Sexual behavior is natural instinct to seek gratification, gifted to us by nature. For the life form it is the pleasure of release but for nature it is the purpose. Purpose of nature influences life form to react to the attraction. Reaction to attraction to act for the purpose of carnal appetite; we can call as sexual behavior
Sexual behavior is under control of the negative and positive feature of our genetic material. Reaction of gene is by dominance of either. Whichever is dominant will react and incite us to act for its objective. In the same time gene also modifies self by interacting with the environment in order to maintain or survive. The negative and positive environment too play role to shape the gene. Dominant environment drags towards its characteristics to shape the gene character alike. Again the force of gene character if is stronger than existing environment, will dominate and act on its terms to assist to strengthen opposite environment. Sexual violence is the result of the dominance of negative behavior and the environment. Such characters are psychologically treated by influencing the opposite dominant environment to what one was undergoing before.
We observe people with two different characters both are opposite to each other. Negative acts negatively and positive acts positively. Negative thinking about sex is only extreme lust or hunger. Desire is only to fulfill extreme hunger, in such case the act is in desperation and painful to the partner. This pleasure of relief one gets similar to what felt during release of urine after extreme pressure and nothing more. On the other hand positive thinker understands the purpose and ways to extract full gratification from this act. Both characters have different ways of activities. One thing we may not forget that males desire to act for release is more frequent than female as male is extroverted that ejects; regular formation of semen activates our sense to go for release. And female is introverted as the process of suction of ejected substance, her peak sense of desire is following menstrual when she is prepared to indulge. During this period attraction is towards committed and manly looking persons and during normal period would wish sweet looking person (if given freedom).
Each sperm cell has own individuality of several hundred million ejaculated, if succeeds to reach egg, decides the quality of the person. SEX AND BEHAVIOUR LINK
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